you should tell yourself more often

you should tell yourself that you mustn't put weight on other people's words.

you should tell yourself that even if the whole world turn against you, you'd stand even taller.

you should tell yourself that small victories and great defeats matter for you to push forward.

you should tell yourself that tears and anger are necessary,  because we are humans not robots.

you should tell yourself that you need not validation from others.

you should tell yourself that anything is possible if you put your mind to it.

you should tell yourself that those who believed in you will stay even if you don't say anything.

you should tell yourself that people come and go.

you should tell yourself that you must not bow down to the whims of others.

you should tell yourself that you are enough and will continue to strive for the better.

you should tell yourself that you mustn't let closed doors cripple your hopes and dreams.

you should tell yourself all of these often. 

because words have a powerful force if it comes from within, not from others.